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Hello everyone,

Two months ago if you sat me down and told me everything I would run into while in China I probably would have responded with a laugh and a roll of my eyes. However, it's been 6 weeks since I arrived and I still trip up over some of these cultural differences. I wish someone had told me about these differences, as it would have made life here so much easier in the beginning. Whether you're studying abroad in China in the coming months, or just curious, here are some of the biggest cultural differences you'll notice, as an American, studying abroad in China. 

  1. Temperature is in Celsius 
    • This was a huge shock to me, mainly due to the fact that I had completely forgotten that every other country but the USA uses the metric system. Trust me, nothing freaks you out more than waking up and seeing the weather outside is 25 degrees in the middle of September. 
  2. Measurements are in meters 
    • Again, one of those 'only in America' moments was when I was in class learning the vocab and my teacher told us how tall she is in centimeters. She proceeded to ask the rest of the class how tall we were, and it was only then that I had to ask, "But how tall are you?" To her surprise, and to everyone else's "Ahh, that's right. She's American.", she had to teach me the conversion rate between a foot and a centimeter. On the bright side after 8 weeks I won't need to tell people how tall I am in centimeters anymore. 
  3. Street fashion is real and quite popular
    • For some odd reason, everyone in China follows their own rule when it comes to fashion. From my perspective, it appears that people here don't care about whether or not the clothes match but rather, do the clothes suit them. This means you'll see girls with shoes that don't match their pants, shirts that hang out below their skirts (while tucked in), and expensive looking accessories that you can't tell are real or not because you've never seen the brand in real life. It's made me realize that the emphasis placed on fashion and cohesiveness is an American thing, and yet somehow the Chinese people still pull off this lack of. 
  4. Chinglish will never make sense, and even when it does it doesn't
    • Finding signs with an attempt at English is funny, but there is a whole other level of comedy when it comes to fashion and accessories that try and employ the use of the English language. As a foreigner in China, there is a certain joy in seeing English on objects or clothing. Sometimes its funny, other times its just plain confusing. Either way, you're going to be amused.
  5. School in China is nothing like school in the United States
    • Now, granted I knew that schooling in the two countries was different, but I didn't know just how different it would be. Classes are taught using only the textbook and creativity is not encouraged inside the Chines classroom. In America, creativity and independence is stressed, whereas in China I've noticed that everyone is taught the same way and that learning is very much the same. Conformity is very much prevalent in the classroom!

With all of this being said, I still find myself more and more comfortable here as the days pass. Have you ever been to China? What were things no one told you about that you wish you had known? 

Until next time, 
October 25, 2018 2 comments
Hi everyone,

It seems that every post I've been writing has something to do with me never staying put! I apologize for that, but with so much beauty and history to be found, it's hard not to travel all across China!

This past weekend I went to Nanjing. It's about an hour and a half from Shanghai by speed train, and I enjoyed getting the chance to leave campus for a little bit. Sometimes the hustle and bustle of the city can leave you feeling drained and less enthusiastic about your time here, so I try and leave Shanghai every so often so that I can come back feeling refreshed. 

Nanjing is home to countless important events in Chinese history. For starters, Nanjing (meaning 'southern city') used to be China's capital. Here is where you can find the tombs of the Ming Emperor,  Hongwu, the founder of the Ming Dynasty himself. Interestingly enough, Chinese emperors had to pick their burial site early into their time as ruler. In this case, the emperor chose to be laid to rest in the mountainside. What makes these ruins even more special are the 12 distinct statues marking the way to his site; they ranged from guards to various animals. Animals included are: lions, camels, elephants, turtles, horses, xiezhi, and qilin. Xiezhi and Qilin are two legendary animals/beings that are only found in East Asian countries. They have a similar appearance, but their functions are different. For instance, Qilin are hooved animals that appear before the passing of a ruler, while Xiezhi had the ability to determine which party is guilty during a trial or affair.  However, the overall meaning behind this is that each animal will protect the king, and each figure will guard and lead him as he enters the afterlife. If that wasn't interesting enough, keep in mind that this tomb was built in the 14th century, meaning that for 600 years this area has stood strong and remained in amazing condition. Understanding the time period can most certainly attest to the incredible craftsmanship of this time. 






  



Another event significant to Nanjing is the Nanjing Massacre. Back in my freshmen year of college I wrote a paper on the Nanjing Massacre and talked about my questions and concerns regarding Chinese and Japanese relations. I won't go into the detail of my paper, but I wanted to spend some time sharing my experience at the memorial. This event greatly impacted Chinese and Japanese relations and, to this day, there is still some animosity towards the other country. 

The difference between a memorial in America and a memorial in China is that, in America, we tend to be more reserved and "toned down", as I like to call it. However, in China, the Nanjing Memorial was extremely detailed, and very blunt. Out front of the memorial is a giant statue of a crying mother holding her dying child. If that doesn't make you aware of what you're walking into, I don't know what will. 

The memorial is much larger on the inside than it looks on the outside, which is hard to believe considering everything you read and see. The Chinese did not hold back in making this memorial. Expect to see various statues, poetry depicting attacks from the perspective of the Chinese. I was amazed at how much information was portrayed, and come the end of it felt very much confused as to why events such as these are not often talked about in American schools. I won't go into the details, but I believe it is important to know this much: From December of 1937 to January of 1938 China was attacked by the Japanese in an effort to take control of China. The government ended up actually leaving the city to operate on their own, and one of the most impactful sections was the internationally organized "safe zone", something I was not aware of before this memorial. However, that aside, the mass murder, rape, and crime against the Chinese from the Japanese soldiers left the total death count at an estimated 300,000 people. There is no way to know the accurate number, but it should be known that the Japanese government has never apologized for this event and they believe the actual number is closer to 20-40,000 people. After this event, the capital was then moved to Beijing, but this does not mean that Nanjing recovered quickly. In fact, the city took decades to recover from this attack. 

I did not take any pictures at this memorial due to me wanting to be as respectful as possible. I did, however, take one picture of the total death count. This number can be seen everywhere, and I felt like this was the only appropriate thing to take a picture of. 



In addition to visiting such scenic sites, I also had the privilege to go to Nanjing Fuzimiao. Fuzimiao is a Confucian temple built next to the Qinhuai River. Here is where there is a scenic riverwalk, with the option to take a boat ride throughout the river. Also found here is one of the temples where Confucius was worshiped and an enshrined. 


In addition to there being temples, there is also the Jiangnan Imperial Hall, where many Chinese men would take the royal examination. Those taking the exam had the potential to enter as farmers and leave as government officials; it was that serious. 


Both of these locations are very near one another, and it makes for a very convenient way to appreciate Nanjing history as well as enjoy local food and culture. 

Door with a red seal inviting good luck on the outside of it

Wall art of two playing children

Wall art of cherry blossoms

Wall art of women with umbrella


Also worth mentioning are some smaller activities, including visiting Nanjing University, Laomendong, and trying some local foods. If you've ever been to China, or are familiar with Chinese food, you are well aware that there is no piece of the animal that goes to waste. This weekend I got to try ducks blood, supposedly good for the heart and lungs due to the fact that it gets rid of toxins in the body. I have no idea if this is true or not, so I didn't exactly fill my bowl. I did, however, try some, so I can at least say that I've done that. 

Nanjing University building
Overall, my stay was short but the impression left on me was enough to make me want to go back. There is something alluring and inviting about a slower pace of life in China, and I couldn't help but feel sad leaving the city. Shanghai is where you would go to work, but Nanjing is where you would go and live. Does that make sense? I hope it does. 

Would you ever visit Nanjing? Let me know in the comments below!

Until next time, 
October 23, 2018 No comments
Hi everyone,

One of the biggest shocks to me while studying abroad was, of course, the sense of nationalism in China. It's not a very overwhelming presence, but there is an entire week dedicated to the founding of the People's Republic, so you could say that the Chinese people are very proud of their country and their history.  

In addition to being famous for political reasons, socially I believe this week is known for being extremely expensive for those who want to travel. It is advised not to go anywhere during this week because of how many people will be out and about. I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm only here for a short amount of time, so I decided to be one of the Chinese and do some of my own traveling: to the city of Chengdu.




Chengdu is the capital of the Sichuan province, located in the western part of the country and known for their spicy food, giant pandas, and difficult to understand dialect (四川话). For me, Sichuan will always be known as the place where I really grew to like China and the Chinese language. Our time was short, but in the few days there we got to see old friends and family, try our favorite foods, and even get a taste of fall in China. 

It's hard to pick highlights when you look back on the week and remember it was a blur, noting how I had only spent three days there makes me question how I was even able to get as much done as I did. But, realistically, I know it's because of the people I surrounded myself with who were just as determined as I was to take advantage of the opportunity. 

From celebrating my birthday in a "Pink concept cafe", to seeing giant pandas at the Chengdu Research Base, going back to Chengdu was a decision I am so glad to have made. Did we stretch ourselves out too thin? Probably. Did we enjoy being back? Most definitely. In fact, I would go back in a heartbeat if I could. 


Until next time, 
October 18, 2018 No comments

Hey everyone,

This weekend I had the opportunity to go with 50 other students from my university to the neighboring province of Zhejiang. Here is where we will spend time learning about traditional Chinese culture and take time to enjoy a more rural part of China. 

The first day was on the 28th of September. After boarding the tour busses, the 50 of us going all left at 9:30. Surprisingly, it took about 2 and a half hours before we arrived at our first stop: Hangzhou Bay Wetland Park. 

Hangzhou Bay Wetland Park was where we were treated to lunch and Shaoxing Opera. The opera style is very unique. Many people were playing instruments and the focus was only on two of the performers. They were both dressed in colorful, bright clothing. The Bay was huge, and we got to see quite a bit of it as we walked through. There were various animals, like alpacas, as well as giant birds. There were a handful of families throughout the Bay, but I think with how hot it was more people opted to stay inside. 


After the Hangzhou Bay Wetland Park we made our way over to dinner, where we had 45 minutes to eat, and then quickly sped off to Carnival de Nice. 

The Carnival was an event. The purpose is to blend Chinese and European culture into a fun night and it ended up being a gigantic parade with animatronic floats, dancing people in costumes, and much more. It was loud. It was bright. It was something I don't think I will ever experience again in my lifetime. It truly encompasses the meaning of, "You just had to be there."

After that we finally got to rest. By this time it was late into the day and pushing midnight, and we had just checked into the Westin. 


Saturday began bright and early at 7:30, where breakfast would be served until 8:30. Our meeting time was immediately after breakfast, where we would board the buses and head off to our next destination. 

Since we would be leaving mid-day today, much of our activities were right after one another, meaning we would be quite rushed throughout them all. Once leaving the hotel we would immediately go to the Tianyi Pavillion and then head to Xikou. 


The Tianyi Pavilion is the oldest existing library in China, having started during the Ming Dynasty. Today, the Pavilion is well kept and still operates using the original architecture. It was well worth the early drive over, as the Pavilion had few people there when we arrived. I was surprised at how nice everything looked as well as how well preserved much of the documents were. It's hard to believe that such an area once housed 70,000 books. After some theft, the library lost about 50,000 books, but today now boasts approximately 30,000. Still, the documents and books that you can see are incredible. Much of the writing is very clear, and the condition of the pieces makes it rather easy to read. Additional points to note are the mahjong room, garden, and the ancestral center. 


Xikou is our last stop in Ningbo. We were told we would go and see one of the Buddha's in the mountain, but I had no idea the actual size until we got there. One of the five sacred Chinese mountains in Buddhism is Xuedou Mountain. Here is where one will find a giant, 200 foot tall copper laughing Buddha, as well as an impeccable view of the Chinese architecture. This Buddha is the largest one of its kind in the world, and If you're lucky, you may see some monks during prayer, as I was able to witness some walking around the base of the Buddha and hear them saying their prayer. To get to the Buddha you will have to ascend 300 steps, and once at the top you can pay an additional 20 yuan to take an elevator from the bottom of the Buddha to the middle, where you can then walk around the front of the body and see a more ariel view of the land. From here you can also touch the feet of the Buddha. 






Getting the opportunity to leave campus for the weekend and see a place other than Shanghai was a decision I do not regret making. Through Ningbo, I got to see a part of China that I've never seen before. I got to see more of rural China, less consumed by goods and materials. I got to see history from a new point of view, and the history of people from a lesser known area. I got to see the giant Buddha in one of the holiest sites in Buddhism, and not to mention in a beautiful mountain. I often say that China is the perfect detox; it puts into perspective what really matters. If you are in the area and are close, go to Zhejiang, go to Ningbo. It will give you a breath of fresh air that the city of Shanghai lacks. It is well worth the visit. 

Where are you hoping I go next? Let me know in the comments and, as always,

Until next time. 
October 16, 2018 No comments
大家好,

Oh my goodness what a semester this has been. I am pushing my third week now and knew that I couldn't wait any longer without updating you all on my semester here in China. 

First, this time around I am in metropolitan city Shanghai. This is the biggest city in Shanghai with 34 million people and, if you're having trouble picturing what this looks like, think about New York City but 4 times larger. This is where I am going to school for this semester.

Shanghai is an immensely global city. This means that many times Chinese aren't surprised to see me. They also don't gawk at me, like in my previous trip to Chengdu, the capital of the Sichuan province. In fact, I was taken aback at how many foreigners are in Shanghai. With this being said, be careful not to get too greedy. Shanghai is still part of China and, with that, the language of the people is Mandarin. If you're lucky, you'll meet someone who can speak putonghua (普通话), but since this is Shanghai the dialect here is Shanghai-hua (上海话). Like many of the Chinese dialects, Shanghainese is hard to understand. This has proved to be challenging at times, as miscommunications have often arose since my arrival. 

However, I want to highlight what life in China has been like so far, and I'm hoping to achieve this in a more positive way; starting with the culture shock. 

If I'm frank, I don't feel there is much of a difference in Chinese culture versus American. Maybe I'm dense, or maybe I'm too busy taking in the sky-rises and thousands of people around me to pay attention to the little things. All in all, I haven't felt out of place or experienced culture shock. The people of Shanghai have been very accommodating, from helping me pronounce a character I don't recognize to going as far to translate their own speech, I have yet to feel out of place here. If I had to pick something, which took me a few minutes to even do, I would comment on the amount of walking Chinese people do compared to Americans. I have never walked as much in America as I have here, and I don't think that is a bad thing in any way. This allows me to see different parts, and people, of the area. I also don't mind the walking, but it's the humidity that can be hard to bear. If you thought Hawaii had it bad then you wouldn't like Shanghai. 

Pudong


I've mentioned the Chinese people so many times that I should probably elaborate on them, correct? For starters, the people in Shanghai are very focused on themselves and their priorities. This is the economic hub of China, so you can bet everyone you see has a place to be and is in a rush to get there. So much so that the subway after 3pm is always packed full of people. Above the unground you'll be met with numerous children, at any hour of the day, playing outside. What's struck me is that children play on the sidewalks for fun, oftentimes riding their scooters, bikes, or toy cars in circles. I would go as far as to say there is a certain type of innocence in the children here. They don't have the luxury of a backyard, as the most common type of housing are high-rise buildings, and oftentimes outside large corporations you will see playdates and day-care groups huddled up laughing and playing. On campus during the evening grandmothers and their grandchildren will be walking around, with the children either running in the grass or playing with the stones in the sidewalk. I cannot imagine how they grow up the way they do, but the look of happiness and contentment on their faces convinces me they are happy the way they are. 

View From My Dorm

Chinese students, however, are a different group of people. The style in China seems to be "whatever suits you goes". In China it seems that if you like the clothing you wear it, and the rule of matching doesn't apply. Girls wear big shirts that hang out from their skirts, platform sneakers, sophisticated skirts with a graphic tee, and more. There is no standard of style in China, and no one cares what you wear. I would like to believe that they look at clothing as a form of expression. It is liberating. 

There is a saying in China that goes something along the lines of, "Everyone must learn English, but few are confident enough to use it." This makes for some interesting conversations with the locals. I oftentimes forget that I am the foreigner, that I am speaking a language that many people do not understand, but this does not mean people do not try. In fact, Chinese people are not bashful or conservative with their staring. When I am in public and talking to another person in my group, you can bet there will be a handful of Chinese watching what is happening. Whether they understand me or not is another story, but the people here do not hesitate to give you their attention--whether you've asked for it or not. 


I already feel like I've given so much away, but trust that there is so much more to come. I can't wait to share with you my experiences trying the food, going to class, and more. I hope you are as excited to be on this journey as I am. 


Until next time, 

September 25, 2018 No comments
Hi everyone!

In the past year I think we can all attest to the growing number of men and women who talk about self love and self care. It's not a new concept, but as far as trends go, it's not exactly one that has been in the books for a while.

I'll be the first to admit that when I first heard about self love that I was skeptical. The whole "take care of yourself first" started to irk me after I saw a couple dozen posts about it. Truth be told, the saying, "No one can love you until you love yourself" is a complete lie and I don't find any credibility in it. 

However

Self care, not "poems" of self love, but true to the core self care, is not a fad and is something I have grown to believe in and find legitimacy in. Let me give you a few examples of why self care isn't a fad, and with that, some reasons why they are healthy habits to have. 

#1: Work up a healthy sweat

You've heard me go on and on about my workout routines and how I swear my weights, but have you considered the benefits of even just walking? Many times when exercise gets brought up in conversation, our anxiety peaks and our breathing begins to quicken. Working up a healthy sweat would be completing exercises like: walking during your lunch break outside, doing squats to your favorite song before a shower, or even practicing slow, steady breathing before bed. Don't automatically assume that working out needs to involve high intensity training, working out could simply mean taking your dog for a walk around the neighborhood! 

#2: Treat your skin now and thank yourself later

Skin care is so important, and if taking 30 minutes out of your day to work on your skin isn't exactly inviting, take a look at the different benefits of skin care. My favorite way to wind down at night is to spend time cleansing, moisturizing, and rolling my face. Now, I'm sure you were following until I said 'rolling', right? Well, my current obsession, with amazing health benefits are jade rollers. Jade rollers help promote circulation, help de-puff the face, help reduce wrinkles, help reduce acne, and, if you believe in crystals, the stone jade helps to draw out negative impurities and balance ones qi.  




#3: Write, write, write

Writing, along with consistent reading, is a great habit to have. In the time I have spent blogging, writing has helped me develop a voice and expand my vocabulary. It requires I use more creative words, rather than repeat them, and forces me to take an opinion. Ever read an article where the author simply goes, "I dunno, but what do you think?" No! Writing is a skill you will need to utilize for the rest of your life, so why not take 10 minutes out of your day to grow as a writer?

I hope you enjoyed these three self care tips. Exercising is a very common way to treat yourself, skin care is my preferred method, and writing is something I enjoy doing as a hobby. Tell me, what are your ways you take care of yourself? 

September 11, 2018 No comments


Skincare, podcasts, lifestyle, oh my!

I wanted to end this series, this month, on a high note and share some of my favorite products, platforms, and little things from this season. I know I've done a couple of these posts before, so if you're not into the hodgepodge that becomes of these kinds of posts, I completely understand. 

Current obsessions: 
  • The Bitch Bible Podcast
    • Seriously, she is hilarious and reminds me of an older sister. If you're looking for a hilarious, confident woman who speaks her mind on anything and everything you need to check this out! I can definitely see myself playing a episode of hers while I get ready in the mornings
  • HeyDay Wireless Earbuds
    • Honestly, I needed a good pair to wear at work and, with a spur of the moment decision while at Target, I grabbed a pink pair of HeyDay earbuds off of the shelf and decided to go for it. They are extremely cheap, but don't let the price throw you off. They work for 8 hours (and trust me I tested this; they held up throughout my entire shift at work) and stay put quite well. I prefer to use these when I need to charge my phone at the same time, and it's so much easier to do so when you have wireless buds. 
  • Keratin Protein Hair Mask
    • After being introduced to the world of hair masks through my friends over at Grace & Stella, I have been on the endless hunt for more nourishing, healthy goodness for my hair. I have noticed a huge difference since using them, but have also began to see a difference in my Hawaii hair versus my Colorado hair. For instance, in Hawaii I used moisturizing shampoo and conditioner and have found it to work wonders in maintaining the moisture level in my hair without making it look greasy. Here, however, I have noticed too much moisture buildup and have been in a rut on how to fix this. Using the Keratin Protein mask has definitely helped combat these excessive oils, plus for $1.25 you get up to four uses! Major win. 
  • Hempz Lotion
    • The holy grail of all lotions, Hempz is a brand I have never been let down by. Currently I am living for their pomegranate scent. Not once have their lotions ever burnt my skin or cause inflammation. For my readers with sensitive skin, I beg you to give them a shot. FYI-- they're $23 at Ulta and $10.99 at Home Goods. You're welcome in advance. 
  • Tazo Matcha Blend
    • As much as I love Starbucks, what I don't love are their prices. For my usual, a grande soy matcha latte, the price is always too expensive for my liking. In all seriousness, it's juts milk and matcha powder, so how is the price equivalent to that of a seasonal drink? It's always baffled me and, as of late, I decided to try and DIY my own matcha latte. I have been loving the Tazo blend and, when paired with soy milk, it's hard to distinguish the two drinks! Definitely going to continue buying while in Hawaii. 
  • Charcoal Cleansing Bar by C&C 
    • The charcoal cleansing bar is exactly what it claims to be: a bar of soup chalk full of charcoal that cleanses and exfoliates. While it's advertised as being extremely foamy, I haven't noticed it come up with foam at all. However, it does seem to do the job in clarifying and cleansing.
What have been your favorites lately? Let me know below what you've been loving or hating.  
August 31, 2018 No comments
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