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大家好,

Oh my goodness what a semester this has been. I am pushing my third week now and knew that I couldn't wait any longer without updating you all on my semester here in China. 

First, this time around I am in metropolitan city Shanghai. This is the biggest city in Shanghai with 34 million people and, if you're having trouble picturing what this looks like, think about New York City but 4 times larger. This is where I am going to school for this semester.

Shanghai is an immensely global city. This means that many times Chinese aren't surprised to see me. They also don't gawk at me, like in my previous trip to Chengdu, the capital of the Sichuan province. In fact, I was taken aback at how many foreigners are in Shanghai. With this being said, be careful not to get too greedy. Shanghai is still part of China and, with that, the language of the people is Mandarin. If you're lucky, you'll meet someone who can speak putonghua (普通话), but since this is Shanghai the dialect here is Shanghai-hua (上海话). Like many of the Chinese dialects, Shanghainese is hard to understand. This has proved to be challenging at times, as miscommunications have often arose since my arrival. 

However, I want to highlight what life in China has been like so far, and I'm hoping to achieve this in a more positive way; starting with the culture shock. 

If I'm frank, I don't feel there is much of a difference in Chinese culture versus American. Maybe I'm dense, or maybe I'm too busy taking in the sky-rises and thousands of people around me to pay attention to the little things. All in all, I haven't felt out of place or experienced culture shock. The people of Shanghai have been very accommodating, from helping me pronounce a character I don't recognize to going as far to translate their own speech, I have yet to feel out of place here. If I had to pick something, which took me a few minutes to even do, I would comment on the amount of walking Chinese people do compared to Americans. I have never walked as much in America as I have here, and I don't think that is a bad thing in any way. This allows me to see different parts, and people, of the area. I also don't mind the walking, but it's the humidity that can be hard to bear. If you thought Hawaii had it bad then you wouldn't like Shanghai. 

Pudong


I've mentioned the Chinese people so many times that I should probably elaborate on them, correct? For starters, the people in Shanghai are very focused on themselves and their priorities. This is the economic hub of China, so you can bet everyone you see has a place to be and is in a rush to get there. So much so that the subway after 3pm is always packed full of people. Above the unground you'll be met with numerous children, at any hour of the day, playing outside. What's struck me is that children play on the sidewalks for fun, oftentimes riding their scooters, bikes, or toy cars in circles. I would go as far as to say there is a certain type of innocence in the children here. They don't have the luxury of a backyard, as the most common type of housing are high-rise buildings, and oftentimes outside large corporations you will see playdates and day-care groups huddled up laughing and playing. On campus during the evening grandmothers and their grandchildren will be walking around, with the children either running in the grass or playing with the stones in the sidewalk. I cannot imagine how they grow up the way they do, but the look of happiness and contentment on their faces convinces me they are happy the way they are. 

View From My Dorm

Chinese students, however, are a different group of people. The style in China seems to be "whatever suits you goes". In China it seems that if you like the clothing you wear it, and the rule of matching doesn't apply. Girls wear big shirts that hang out from their skirts, platform sneakers, sophisticated skirts with a graphic tee, and more. There is no standard of style in China, and no one cares what you wear. I would like to believe that they look at clothing as a form of expression. It is liberating. 

There is a saying in China that goes something along the lines of, "Everyone must learn English, but few are confident enough to use it." This makes for some interesting conversations with the locals. I oftentimes forget that I am the foreigner, that I am speaking a language that many people do not understand, but this does not mean people do not try. In fact, Chinese people are not bashful or conservative with their staring. When I am in public and talking to another person in my group, you can bet there will be a handful of Chinese watching what is happening. Whether they understand me or not is another story, but the people here do not hesitate to give you their attention--whether you've asked for it or not. 


I already feel like I've given so much away, but trust that there is so much more to come. I can't wait to share with you my experiences trying the food, going to class, and more. I hope you are as excited to be on this journey as I am. 


Until next time, 

September 25, 2018 No comments
Hi everyone!

In the past year I think we can all attest to the growing number of men and women who talk about self love and self care. It's not a new concept, but as far as trends go, it's not exactly one that has been in the books for a while.

I'll be the first to admit that when I first heard about self love that I was skeptical. The whole "take care of yourself first" started to irk me after I saw a couple dozen posts about it. Truth be told, the saying, "No one can love you until you love yourself" is a complete lie and I don't find any credibility in it. 

However

Self care, not "poems" of self love, but true to the core self care, is not a fad and is something I have grown to believe in and find legitimacy in. Let me give you a few examples of why self care isn't a fad, and with that, some reasons why they are healthy habits to have. 

#1: Work up a healthy sweat

You've heard me go on and on about my workout routines and how I swear my weights, but have you considered the benefits of even just walking? Many times when exercise gets brought up in conversation, our anxiety peaks and our breathing begins to quicken. Working up a healthy sweat would be completing exercises like: walking during your lunch break outside, doing squats to your favorite song before a shower, or even practicing slow, steady breathing before bed. Don't automatically assume that working out needs to involve high intensity training, working out could simply mean taking your dog for a walk around the neighborhood! 

#2: Treat your skin now and thank yourself later

Skin care is so important, and if taking 30 minutes out of your day to work on your skin isn't exactly inviting, take a look at the different benefits of skin care. My favorite way to wind down at night is to spend time cleansing, moisturizing, and rolling my face. Now, I'm sure you were following until I said 'rolling', right? Well, my current obsession, with amazing health benefits are jade rollers. Jade rollers help promote circulation, help de-puff the face, help reduce wrinkles, help reduce acne, and, if you believe in crystals, the stone jade helps to draw out negative impurities and balance ones qi.  




#3: Write, write, write

Writing, along with consistent reading, is a great habit to have. In the time I have spent blogging, writing has helped me develop a voice and expand my vocabulary. It requires I use more creative words, rather than repeat them, and forces me to take an opinion. Ever read an article where the author simply goes, "I dunno, but what do you think?" No! Writing is a skill you will need to utilize for the rest of your life, so why not take 10 minutes out of your day to grow as a writer?

I hope you enjoyed these three self care tips. Exercising is a very common way to treat yourself, skin care is my preferred method, and writing is something I enjoy doing as a hobby. Tell me, what are your ways you take care of yourself? 

September 11, 2018 No comments
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Hey there! My name is Aislinn and welcome to my blog. Here you will learn all about my times at the University of Hawaii; completely raw and unashamedly myself. In addition to writing about the University I also frequently post about lifestyle, beauty, and travel. I hope you enjoy reading my words as much as I enjoy writing them. Thank you for stopping by,

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