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A collegiate's take on island life

Hey guys, 

This week I wanted to give you more of an academic update. I know that, as of late, the majority of my posts have been about Daniel and all of our adventures around the island. To counter these posts, I wanted to publish one that discusses my recent academic endeavors. I hope that you enjoy.


I think it's best we start with the most prominent event thus far: midterms.

Yes, it's midterm season again. This means late nights studying, cramming for exams, and suddenly getting homework in half of your classes. 

Actually, it hasn't been like this at all. You would think that, considering how I'm enrolled in 18 credits, my semester would be like this constantly. You would think that I'm always staying up late studying, or either having some homework assignment to complete, but in reality it has been quite the opposite.

The classes I'm taking, for those of you that may have forgotten, are: Chinese 301, Korean 101, Intro to Political Science, China's Political Economy, Oceanography, and the accompanying OCN lab.

Now while those classes look daunting (and 18 credits sounds just as bad), let me put to rest the notion that I do nothing but study. These past few weeks I have been going out much more and even just doing much more, and there would be no absolute way I would feel comfortable doing what I've done if I would have had the amount of homework that many people assume an 18 credit workload has.

Instead, my classes are quite easy in terms of demand. For Korean, we have homework once every chapter. That's it! One worksheet every chapter. This means that once every four weeks (give or take) I have a worksheet to complete. How crazy is that? I could only dream of the day my Chinese class is this laid back. 

Speaking of which, Chinese class , the outlier of my classes and the bane of my existence, is the one class in which I have homework every night. To be frank, I'm not sure how I've been successful in doing any of the homework this past month and a half, because it feels like I have done no work at all. The workload of Chinese class this year is much more manageable than last, and while I might complain, I'm still so very much thankful. In fact, this semester I have all but lost that familiar "panic" feeling I used to get when entering the classroom. Instead, I have been showing up to class feeling like "You know what? I've got this." and feeling very relaxed overall. I don't know what changed, but I do believe that it has to do with my level slowly (but surely!) increasing. I definitely should make more of an effort to remind myself of this, as I all too often get caught up in tearing myself down for not understanding, instead of praising myself for when I do understand.

As far as science goes, in my Oceanography class I never have homework. In fact, unless you find yourself taking the lab, then you really won't have any homework. For this class the only grades are: participation, a class field trip, and the unit exams. However, if you do find yourself in the lab, your grade will be based on lab reports and a scientific paper on the topic of your choosing.

In my Political Science class our only homework thus far have been the readings assigned to us before every lecture. To be quite honest, you really don't even need to do the readings, as they are more supplementary material. You may find that you like them, or you may find yourself more-so in my boat, where, after a few weeks, I found them to be boring and realized they were not required readings.

In my last class, China's Political Economy, our only assignments for the entire semester are two reports and an accompanying two presentations. Our final? A take home paper and a private presentation with the teacher. This is arguably my most laid-back class, as you should all remember at the beginning of the semester she introduced herself by saying "I'm sure you've all read my ratings and know that, rest assured, you will be getting good grades.". While the class itself regularly goes off-topic, I wouldn't let the idea that it's an upper division, writing intensive class make you believe I'm doing any difficult work. In fact, I think it's been very nice that I'm able to take a class that I find interesting that also doesn't require much work. It makes enjoying the class all the much better.

And now, with a solid idea of how much work I have in general, it would be fair to assume that my midterms are either going to be extremely easy or insanely difficult. Let me break it down some more.

The midterms I have had thus far are: Oceanography and Political Science

Now, I know initially that this doesn't look like much. And really, it isn't. But I think that, now knowing how these two classes require such minimal work, that the bulk of my grades will ride on these exams. 

Thankfully, I can say with confidence that I believe I did very well on my political science midterm. Our test requires us to memorize 50 vocab words and 2 individual questions. On the exam itself, our professor choose 10 out of the 50 words and asked we define only 6 of our choosing. I also believe I did fairly well on the ID question, which had an additional 3 parts to it. This midterm will account for one third of my grade. The other 66% will come from our final and our mid semester paper. 

Oceanography is a different story. The class itself is, I find, relatively boring. I don't understand much of what the professors are talking about, and this made the midterm much harder than the political science one. If I'm being honest, the entire reason I took this class and not something like food science is because I heard from all of my friends that it's an easy science credit. Unfortunately, what I didn't take into consideration was that all of those friends were either marine biology majors or biology majors. I passed the midterm, of course, but knowing what I know now I will definitely have to study up more so that I can do better on the next exam. 

Also, since this post has been published, I will have completed another midterm: Chinese Oral. This one, to me, is such a disappointment. This semester I have felt like I have been doing so good, and then today I didn't have such great luck. Our test seemed simple, to talk 1-3 minutes about Chinese doctors and convince your friend why they should or should not see one. However, what I didn't know about, was that even though our regular class time is 50 minutes, the exam itself would only be 15. Which means that, even though we were told "record yourselves as many times as you need", when the teacher said "TIME!", that she actually means that the test is over. I cannot tell you the sheer panic I felt as I looked away from my computer screen and locked eyes with her at the front. At only 30 seconds into my fourth take, I knew that I was done for. I wanted to perfect my audio file, and unfortunately not knowing this exam was only 1/3 of the class time led me to, without a doubt, fail the oral. It is times like these when I feel the most discouraged, as I know that I know the information, but it just doesn't come out. I wish I could say it was no big deal, but with a fellowship riding on my back, solely dependent on the grade I get in this class, I cannot say anything less. I can only hope that the midterm reading, writing, and listening go much better. 

The rest of my classes don't have midterms! Which are really just China's Political Economy and Korean. It feels nice to come home and feel like I don't have anything to study for or to work on. Of course, one could argue that I always have something that I could be studying for, but for now I would like to enjoy this tiny period of rest. 

Additionally, outside of class, I have begun Chinese tutoring again and have also been going to the gym more regularly. I was really good about going in the beginning of the semester, but once classes started picking up things seemed to fizzle out. I really hope that these next few weeks I can spend more time on the treadmill and less on my desk chair. I have also started working at my new on-campus job! For safety reasons, similar to last year, I will not be sharing where I work. Just know that it is "as demanding, if not more, than a class." as my boss told me on the first day. I guess that, even with 18 credits, I can't get a break. 

I hope everyone is having a great week and that midterms aren't causing complete havoc on your academic lives. 

Until next time,

Aislinn
October 12, 2017 No comments
Hey guys,

I don't know how to start this post, and I'm not sure how many times I'll have to re-write it before I'm settling on which draft I prefer.


In short, things have been weird.


Things started to get weird with the girls two weeks ago. Once I told them that I was dating Daniel, they began to act really weird around me. First it was saying things like, "hows that kid doing" (this one confuses me the most because he is older than them), then progressed into not including me in as many things, then turned into just being mute around me.


I understand that when I'm gone that the other two are going to spend more time with one another, but yet I didn't expect to go from being close to them to feeling like I'm being excluded in my own home. So of course, when I'm feeling this way, why would I spend more time at home? That's just it; I wouldn't.


So I spent more time out of the house. I got out as much as I could and came back as late as I could. While this certainly doesn't help anything, it does make me realize how busy I've been. I've been going out nearly every night, and while I feel exhausted at the end of the day, I realize that this is only temporary. I can always sleep in on the weekends, and usually thats what I end up doing. I just wish I had a better idea of why things got so awkward and how things became so awkward.


With my birthday coming up, I can only hope that things get better. It's annoying constantly feeling like an outside in your own home. 


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On another note, Daniel and I spent this weekend with each other. Similarly to last, we began by waking up very early, getting breakfast at a nice restaurant, and heading out for North Shore. However, unlike last week, the two of us began our trip at the Koulua Ranch, where we made a quick stop for breakfast. The Ranch is about halfway between Kaneohe and Haleiwa, and is a nice stop to take if you have the chance. Once having filled up on eggs and english muffins, we were back in the car, not even 30 minutes later, and driving only a few short miles to the Crouching Lion hike. 


This hike, which I have been wanting to do for months is one that is a little difficult to find, but can be found on the side of the highway. Again, it's not easy to find, in fact we didn't find it, and you have to be sure to hike with another person. Trust me when I say attempting this hike alone is dangerous. Daniel and I made the mistake of making a wrong turn, and soon it led us up the Pu’u Manama hike. Little did we know, this hike claims title as one of the "most dangerous hikes on Oahu, one which takes many lives every year". Naturally, you can assume that coming down was the scariest part, and under no circumstances will I hike there again unless it's with someone who has already tried hiking that ridge before. 




The view behind Daniel
The view behind me
The view of Crouching Lion from where we were
The Bay
Blue as far as you can see

After taking twice as long to get down as we did to get up, the two of us took a break in the car and then were off to our next destination: Giovanni's.


It's hard to picture it, but 30 miles fly by when on the scenic highway. I will never get tired of looking outside and seeing the ocean just feet away from me, no other islands as far as you can see. I have come to appreciate, even more, that I should not expect more time than I am given. What do I mean by this? When Daniel and I go places, even if it's to the library, time flies. And so, when I say that it's a 30 mile drive to the food trucks, you better believe it when I say that it feels like no time has passed, when in reality you've lost an hour driving (however, with the views the Kamehameha Highway provides, did you really lose time?). 


Giovanni's was amazing. It was a nice break from the adrenaline that the hike provided us, and what made it even sweeter was enjoying it with a coconut smoothie and a black coffee. 


After devouring the lemon butter shrimp, Daniel and I took a quick break and drove back to Haleiwa Bowls. Once again, we went with the hapa bowl, and this time we got extra blueberries on top. Delicious!


One of our last stops was Turtle Bay Resort, where we spent a couple hours swimming and laying out before packing our bags and getting ready for the main event: Our luau. 


With two hours left before our dinner, Daniel and I agreed to get ready at the resort before heading off. 



Now comes the exciting part of this post!





The Polynesian Cultural Center is huge! The cultures, people, and places represented are done so in such a way that it is guaranteed to leave you speechless. I've included a picture of the map below, but just keep in mind that, in addition to this, there is so much more to see!





Also worth pointing out is that, in each location, the people here were speaking that language! That means when you are walking around Hawaii you're going to hear Hawaiian, and when you're walking throughout Samoa you're going to hear Samoan! This was an immediate discovery for me and I can only applaud the Polynesian Cultural Center on how they are doing such a good job of making this as "immersive" as possible. Before getting dinner Daniel and I made it a point to get our picture taken next to the river. 




From here on out I'm unfortunately not able to include pictures. The dinner was good, an overall well-rounded dinner consisting of: prime rib, fried chicken, spaghetti and meatballs, fruits, deserts, salads, etc. 
Once done with dinner, we enjoyed some more of the things to be seen around the center, such as Tahiti, and made our way back to the platform to take our seats. 
The show itself was about an hour and a half. I shouldn't even refer to it as a "show", but more like a "production". Every culture had representation, from their traditional clothing to speaking in their respective languages. It was funny, entertaining, awe-inspiring, and more. I wish I had a picture, as I'm sure the luau you're picturing is nothing close to the show we got to witness. 


Honestly, if you're considering going to this luau, or are hesitant because of the price, just go. Seriously, this is the best luau I have been to and is definitely one that you get the most out of for your money. Daniel and I both agreed this was one we would revisit, if given the chance. 
And that was my week! It's hard to put into words how much I've been up to, but I can only hope that these posts give you a sort of glimpse into my busy busy life. I often catch myself wishing I had more time, or just begging for a night without homework, but I have to remind myself that this is all temporary. And that's what is scary! None of this will last, and if I'm busy because I'm taking advantage of Oahu, than why am I complaining? As it is, I'm close to being halfway done with college. Isn't that crazy? But yet, here I am wishing for time off?! I am trying to be better about not taking things for granted, or not asking for more time, as this is all temporary and I need to enjoy these busy days. 


I hope you are all having a great day. Study hard, everyone.


Until next time,


Aislinn 

October 03, 2017 No comments
Hey everyone,

I wanted to share some news with you that I've just received. If you all remember back to a couple of posts ago, I mentioned that I was going to give Rush Week a try. Well, once finding out the financial cost of joining the sororities, I decided to wait instead, at least until I felt more comfortable with the finances. And then, unexpectedly, I was contacted by one of the sororities on campus: Alpha Gamma Delta. 


She introduced herself as one of the campus representatives and wanted to let me know that the sorority was interested in recruiting me in a more personal manner called "Continuous Open Bidding". 


I'm not going to lie, I haven't heard about this type of recruitment before, so I was a bit hesitant at first. I tried researching some more information regarding this type of recruitment process, but I wasn't successful in finding some information, so I decided to compile this process in a singular post for all of those curious.


Continuous Open Bidding (COB) is a process that is typically conducted a short time after actual Rush Week. COB is usually done in an effort to meet a quota, however Potential New Members (PNM) are still sorted out beforehand to see if they're a good fit. COB can last anywhere from one meeting to a couple of them; all with current sisters. 


My first meeting was on September 21st at 9:30 in the morning. I had agreed to meet with a sister outside of Starbucks and go over any questions I may have. What I liked about the first sister was that she too, had gone through COB, meaning she knew firsthand what I was going through. While it was challenging coming up with questions about greek life and the greek scene at Manoa, I quickly became very comfortable and felt relieved at how informed she was. A little bit into our conversation and we were joined by another sister, this time a girl who had been in the sorority for 3 years. She was also very knowledgable about the sorority, and didn't hesitate resolving any of my concerns, such as why they were recruiting me. 


When I asked this question, "Why is AGD recruiting me?" I was met with an overall shocking answer. In complete honesty, the response was, "We are looking to meet a quota. We didn't reach our mark for this past Rush, so now we have about 17 other girls we're trying to recruit." I can't lie and say that I was disappointed by this answer, because I did see it coming, but I was definitely saddened. I knew there had to be another reason for them to be trying to get to know me all of a sudden, but "to meet a quota" was definitely not something I was prepared to hear. 

After my first "Coffee Date", as it was referred to, I have one more meeting and then will find out whether or not I'm going to be receiving a bid. As of right now, I'm really excited. I'm curious to hear more about the Greek life at Manoa, and I'm curious to hear more about the sisterhood within Alpha Gamma Delta. 

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My second meeting was the following Monday. This meeting was in the afternoon and would consist of me sitting down with the same girl from the first "date" along with a new sister. This meeting was much shorter, with the girls asking me if I had any questions. When my questions were answered they told me that I would hear from a sister shortly with a possible bid. In total the meeting lasted 10 minutes.


I heard from the next girl a few days later, receiving a long text that congratulated me on my acceptance and ended with an offer into the sorority. 

While I was initially thrilled, it soon hit me that the entire basis of them even reaching out to me was to "meet a quota". I had a hard time looking past that, and even after talking about it with Daniel I started to realize I could not be in the sorority. 

I can't be in a group that does not want me for me. I cannot be in a group that needs me only to "meet their mark". And, above all, I cannot be in a group that I did not work for.

For all of you curious about the greek life at Manoa, this is it. This is what could very well be your own experience, but by no means is this a holistic representation of the greek life. 

Until next time,

Aislinn
October 03, 2017 No comments
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